Down with a Migraine Again


It is this time of the month again. This splitting headache have haunted me right from my grade school days. I swear everyone thought I had a brain tumor or something. It got worse during puberty when I had my menarche. More often than not it would last for three days or more if I do not take in the right medication. The usual ibuprofen or ponstan have never worked for me. Even those old as time Avamigran medications never kicked in.


The only medication I remember worked for me then was Orudis. For some reason I was told that it got phased out. I succumb to self-medication. Because honestly, the doctors around here are not able to give me the best medication that can help at all. Call it desperate measure, call it whatever. I could not care less, because only migraine sufferers understand how bad it really is whenever it attacks. I so hate it! It's almost like wanting to give yourself over to death, if that would mean the only relief. But of course, that's just to emphasize how bad it becomes.


It's just awful that just when the hubby and I have got everything planned for the night and this migraine attacks. We intended to watch Indiana Jones (the old one) on DVD, and then the migraine just continued to build up. I had almost squealed for complete silence and darkness. It's just awful to say the least.


Are you a migraine sufferer? Or do you know someone who is? What worked for you? I tried that inhaling exercises using a brown bag and all the other tricks. I probably have tried everything. I hate taking Flanax every single month. I hate taking those synthetic medications, but I am not given much of a choice whenever it strikes. I even think, Flanax is my saving grace whenever attack comes. It's just terrible to say the least. I know I am babbling. I am just relieved I am over another migraine bout.

A Toddler's Bed Wetting Issues

I could say this is one aspect that I am blessed to not have a problem with when it comes to my toddler. Our little guy just turned three and was officially potty trained at two years and three months, if not earlier. But it was during that stage that he really has breezed through and got over accidents (i.e. when he would still occasionally wet the bed especially when he was into lots of activities during the day).



It is said that the average age for a girl to be potty trained is 34 months, and for boys around 37 months. But parents should not expect their toddlers not meet occasional bed wetting accidents up until the age of five or six. Try to avoid liquids by evenings to lessen the likelihood of wetting the bed.


I have noticed with our son that when he is so much into his playtime, he intentionally holds his pee until once or twice he has got his briefs wet, that is the only time he would rush to the toilet. Often times it is preoccupation in his part. And in the evenings, during bed time, he does not wet his bed, primarily because it has been like the norm for both the hubby and me to carry him to the toilet when midnight strikes. He would automatically pee when he feels the toilet rim around his tushy (even while sleeping). You can try this one out and maybe manage your toddler's bed wetting issues.


I was shocked when I read this news from the papers this morning. I immediately texted the hubby to let him know about the news. Steven Curtis Chapman has blessed us a great deal with his songs. I could only imagine the hurt he and the rest of his family is going through at this time of their lives.


Apparently, one of his teenage sons was driving their SUV and accidentally ran over the five year old girl. Just a few hours before the accident, the whole family was in celebration for the eldest daughter just got engaged. May the Lord comfort their family in this time of grief.


Here's a blog post by Chapman's manager, Jim Houser, in memory of Maria Sue.

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I was baptized with my first cup of Ciao Bella which is posted here. One taste, that's all it took and I was a believer. I can't wait to have my next cup. Allow me to run to the nearest Shopwise. Rustan's is just millions of miles away.

And you know what drove me to more excitement? There are tons of flavors! Tons that I'm sure are all equally yummy. I am so going to indulge. :-)

LET Passer in D' House

I passed the board exam that I took last April 6. This is another miracle and I praise God for allowing me this honor. I truly am blessed! :-)

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Nails Painted- Check!

This is the first time in six years that I have colored my nails. I used to sport french tip nails back in my single days. I always sat pretty at home with nothing to do. All I practically had to do was go to school and prettify myself. lol! It's not that I regret putting on this domestic goddess wardrobe or being a hot momma to my little guy. I will never exchange this seat for anything in the world. I just don't find those things as interesting anymore. Come to think of it, being the "kikay" girl that I was, I never thought I'd ever be domesticated ever. Not that there's anything wrong with remaining "kikay". I even think I still have some tinge of it and it does surface every so often. It's probably a natural evolution when you start living out your purpose in life and go about to enjoying it. Other things like this all become trivial.

Anyway, the hubby insisted I get my nails done. By the way, even back in the old days I have always done my own nails. I dread going to salons to have my nails done, ever! Imagine using the same things that other people use. My peeve over this became even stronger when I watched from a documentary that one can even get diseases, serious ones at that, by getting contaminated with an infected blood from one of those salon nail pushers. Eewww! But I would have to admit visiting a salon for a pedicure during the last trimester of my pregnancy in 2005. I just couldn't reach my toe nails anymore and the hubby does not have the "talent" to take out that nasty ingrown toenail (double eeww!) That was one time and yeah, I also had my nails done for my wedding day, but it was one time my mother insisted on, to give me that extra pampering achuchuchu. And I remember not minding that much back then. I was probably too frazzled about the wedding preps and all that. The hubby and I did all our wedding preparations, for the record.


What I had in mind was just to color my toe nails bloody red to match my red evening dress for the wedding he will officiate tomorrow. But he so insisted to get my fingers done as well. I did not want to, because I would have to do a number of dishwashing from then till the wedding and I might just have to end up taking them all off. Besides I wasn't sure I still can be as savvy in nail polishing as before. I guess it's something innate in me. lol! I thought while doing my nails that one reason why I don't want my nails done by someone else is I always want a perfect finish and all those times I had my nails done by someone else, I would see some nips and imperfection here and there.


You wouldn't believe how the hubby so pushed me to get my finger nails painted as well. He even volunteered to do the dishes and cleaned the waffle maker for me. He hates the tedious task of cleaning our waffle maker. But I admit to reinforcing the cleaning that he did on that. :-)


One of the things I remember him repeatedly telling me back then is how beautiful my fingers and toes are. He actually wants to go back to that time. I just figured a while back, maybe I can still paint my nails alright from time to time. Even if it's just for the hubby's enjoyment. Or should I say, especially for the hubby's enjoyment. :-)

Showbiz and Entertainment

If there is anything that for sure to interest the public every single time, it is this – celebrities and their lifestyles. Even as I am not one of those fanatic stalkers of any given celebrity, I would definitely go and make a look-see of anything that’s making buzz around the business of show business. And why not? These people are living large, even as they lose their privacy at all, they would have to admit to it that fame is really something to them.

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A Boy Dies of Meningococcemia

This headline from the newspaper today caught my attention. That dreadful disease is actually near our place and what's worse is even if the boy died in Amang Rodriguez Hospital in Marikina. He actually resides in San Isidro, Antipolo City. I know not exactly where that place is. But one thing for sure. Whenever I use my mobile network's feature "friend finder" and a loved one happens to be inside our subdivision -- my inbox would read "Kingsville Subd. (our village) Bgy. San Isidro..." I know for a fact that it should have been Bgy.Mayamot, still that goes out to say that Bgy. San Isidro is actually just around the corner. Scary.

I have been hearing Meningococcemia since 2005. I was actually pregnant with our little guy back then and all those scary stuff being told that just a respiratory droplet from the infected person will spread the bacterium far and wide and can get someone dead in the next 24 hours. Cruel disease.

Here's straight from the news:

Boy dies of meningococcemia in Marikina

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

A four-year-old boy died in a hospital in Marikina City from what doctors believe to be meningococcemia.

Dr. Ricardo Lustre, director of the Amang Rodriguez Medical Center (ARMC), ordered hospital staff to trace the last persons who made contact with the victim, Richard Aure, so they could be given proper medical attention.

Aure, of Barangay San Isidro in Antipolo City, was rushed to the hospital last Sunday but was later declared as dead on arrival. His body was sealed to prevent the bacteria from spreading.

Lustre said the ARMC refused to accept incoming patients as hospital staff quarantined the emergency room and other areas where Aure’s body passed. The hospital resumed normal operations at 4 a.m. yesterday, 15 hours after Aure’s arrival at the ARMC.

Lustre instructed hospital personnel to wear surgical masks and take medicine to avoid being infected with meningococcemia, an acute and potentially fatal infection of the bloodstream.

Respiratory droplets released by an infected person who sneezes or coughs can spread the bacterium that causes the disease. Non Alquitran

This artwork is composed of seeds, millions of them, I suppose. It was such a sight to see such work of art done in the middle of the park (Serendra). Most seeds I don't recognize, but I saw one whole layer of unpopped corns. Brilliant and artistic! Too bad, I wasn't able to catch its lovely entirety, all I had was my trusty cam phone to take this shot.

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Her Super Foods

The top 16 super foods for women (and maybe for men, too)--
Tea
Why it’s good for you: Heart disease, cancer, and weight management

Women who drink about 4 cups of tea a day lower their risk for heart disease, stroke, and breast, colon, and brain cancers. Phytochemicals and possibly caffeine in tea also help with weight management, if combined with a low-fat, calorie-controlled diet and exercise.

How to include more in your diet: Skip the bottled teas, since most of the health compounds are lost in processing. Instead, brew a pot at home and fill your thermos or water bottle to meet both your fluid needs and get your 4 cup quota.

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Salmon
Why it’s good for you: Prevents heart disease, depression (including postpartum depression), and memory loss, encourages optimal brain and vision development in your baby

You are hearing a lot about the omega-3 fats these days and salmon tops the list for the tastiest, best source of these healthy fats. The omega-3s reduce the risk for blood clot formation and may lower blood levels of the bad cholesterol, which helps prevent heart attack and stroke. These fats help the brain develop properly, which is critical during pregnancy and while breastfeeding. The omega-3s also boost levels of serotonin, the feel-good brain chemical, and might lower Alzheimer’s risk by up to 60%!

How to include more in your diet: Of the top ten most commonly eaten fish, salmon tops the charts for omega-3s, so to keep the blues at bay include at least two 4-ounce servings a week in your meal plan: top a field of greens with sliced salmon and walnuts and toss in a light vinaigrette made with olive oil (avoid soybean and sunflower oils, which contain omega-6 fats that undo some of the benefits of the omega-3s). Or, choose foods fortified with the omega-3 fat DHA.

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Old-fashioned oatmeal
Why it’s good for you: Diabetes, weight control, heart disease

This simple, old-fashioned favorite helps maintain a healthy weight thanks to the magic combo of fiber and water, which fills you up on fewer calories and digests slowly so you are satisfied between breakfast and lunch and less likely to be grazing at the fridge or vending machine. In addition, the type of fiber in old fashioned oats, called beta glucan - a soluble fiber, when mixed with liquid forms a viscous gel that helps decrease cholesterol absorption and lowers blood sugar levels, lowering the risk for both diabetes and heart disease. Old fashioned oats have much more fiber and staying power than instant or quick-cooking oats.

How to include more in your diet: Before you go to bed, do the prep work for Nutty Apricot Oatmeal by placing 1 /2 cup old fashioned oatmeal, 1/6 cup chopped dried apricots, 1 Tbsp. brown sugar and dash of cinnamon and almond extract in a preheated, wide-mouth thermos. Add 1 cup of steamed fat-free or low-fat milk and close tightly. In the morning just open the thermos, sprinkle with 2 tsp. slivered almonds, and you have a warm, delicious breakfast waiting for you!

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Dark chocolate
Why you need it: The ultimate comfort food, heart disease

Chocolate’s botanical name is theobroma cacao, which appropriately translates to “Food of the Gods.” Besides the fact that nothing curbs a craving for chocolate, except a bit of this melt-in-your-mouth delight, the cocoa powder in dark chocolate outranks just about any food studied when it comes to antioxidants. The level of antioxidants can be measured in any food by a test called Oxygen Radical Absorption Capacity or ORAC. A serving of dark chocolate measures 9,000 units on the ORAC scale, compared to an average of about 2,000 units found in typical servings of fruits or vegetables. This might explain why dark chocolate lowers heart disease by 20%, probably because it lowers total cholesterol, reduces blood clots and inflammation in arteries, and keeps arteries elastic. Chocolate also might lower the risk for hypertension and diabetes.

How to include more in your diet: Skip milk chocolate and Dutch processed cocoa, which have next to no antioxidants. Choose chocolate that is at least 70% cocoa powder. Chocolate is calorific, so you must limit serving to about an ounce:
1. Include a small amount of high-quality dark chocolate with meals or soon after. You’re less like to binge that way.

2. Buy individually wrapped pieces, so it’s portioned for you ahead of time.

3. Use cocoa powder as the base of your chocolate treats, since it has no cocoa butter and is low in calories, yet packed with antioxidants.

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Tomato paste
Why it’s good for you: Heart disease, healthy skin, and fibroids

Women average less than 3 ounces of canned tomatoes daily, which is no where near enough. Tomatoes are an excellent source of lycopene, a potent antioxidant found in the red pigment in plants that might be a heart saver. Maintaining high blood levels of lycopene could lower heart disease risk in women by up to 50%. Another study suggests that lycopene also might reduce the risk for fibroid tumors, which affect up to 45% of women.

How to include more in your diet: The first place to start is to consume more lycopene-rich foods, such as tomatoes and tomato products like paste, juice, and sauce. Cooked tomato products have more lycopene than fresh tomatoes. One study showed that lycopene is absorbed 2.5 times better from tomato paste than from fresh tomatoes. You’ll need seven servings or more a week, each containing at least 10 milligrams or the amount of lycopene in about 1.5 Tablespoons of tomato paste or two fresh tomatoes. The redder the fruit, the higher the lycopene, so add vine-ripened tomatoes to salads and sandwiches, since they have more lycopene than tomatoes picked green and allowed to ripen later. Add tomato paste and sauce or canned tomatoes to soups and sauces. For a quick snack, spread tomato-based pizza on a toasted English muffin, top with low-fat cheese, and broil until cheese bubbles.

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Oranges
Why it’s good for you: Heart disease, cancer, cataracts, skin, and aging

Oranges are the number one source of vitamin C in our diets, which is the most important water-soluble antioxidant in the body, associated with lowering risks for a number of diseases, from heart disease and cancer to cataracts and premature aging of the skin. Oranges also are an excellent source of folate, the B vitamin that helps lower risk for birth defects, heart disease, cancer, and even memory loss. They are an excellent source of potassium, especially for those women battling high blood pressure or who are on diuretic medications that cause potassium depletion (sometimes just increasing potassium-rich foods, such as citrus, in the diet is all it takes to lower medication dosages!). In addition, oranges supply both soluble and insoluble fibers. The soluble fibers, such as pectin, are especially important in lowering risks for disease like heart disease, diabetes, and cancer. For example, one study found breast cancer risk decreased 84% when vitamin C intake was high.

But that’s just the tip of the nutritional iceberg. The humble orange also houses more than 170 phytochemicals known to lower risk for breast cancer, heart disease, and inflammatory conditions in women.

How to include more in your diet: Switch from chips to orange sections for a mid-day nibble. Mix orange sections into orange-flavored yogurt, dunk orange sections in fat-free, dark-chocolate syrup; pair oranges with sweet potatoes in a salad; use fresh orange juice and maple syrup for marinades; mix orange sections into guacamole, rice dishes, and tossed salads; sprinkle candied ginger over orange sections for an after-dinner snack.
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Wheat germ

Why it’s good for you: Stress, bones, thyroid, and diabetes

The heart of the wheat kernel is a gold mine of nutrition. A half cup serving of toasted wheat germ supplies more than half of a woman’s daily magnesium needs, a mineral that three out of four women don’t get enough of, yet is essential for reducing stress, building bones, and regulating thyroid function (which affects 20% of postmenopausal women) and heart rate. Magnesium also aids in the production, release, and activity of insulin. Several studies, including one from Harvard School of Public Health, found that women cut their risk of developing diabetes by 48% when they consumed magnesium-rich diets. In contrast, low intake of magnesium increases risk more than three-fold. Wheat germ also supplies husky amounts of vitamins, including 100% of your daily need for folic acid, 50% of your vitamin E requirement, and decent amounts of trace minerals, such as iron and zinc.

How to include more in your diet: Sprinkle on oatmeal or yogurt, add to cookie and pancake batters, mix into muffin or meatloaf recipes, or blend with honey and peanut butter for a sandwich spread.


Your short-term action plan: Schedule a checkup with a cosmetic dermatologist so you can determine your specific skin type. "A consumer can't really do that on her own," Sadick says, so you'll need professional help to determine exactly what your skin needs. Ask whether your skin is healthy, whether you're at risk of skin cancer, and if there's any way you can slow down aging.

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Extra-lean red meat

Why it’s good for you: Fatigue, memory

Beef has gotten a bad rap, probably because so many cuts of beef are drenched in saturated fat, the bad fat that clogs a woman’s arteries and leads to heart disease, colon cancer, and other ills. But, extra-lean beef has a number of good qualities, with iron topping the list. Iron is the #1 deficiency for women, with estimates ranging from 20% to 80% of women being iron deficient. Iron is the key oxygen-carrier in the body. Without enough iron, the tissues - from your brain to your muscles - literally suffocate for oxygen and that causes fatigue, poor concentration, and increased susceptibility to colds and infections. Not only does extra-lean beef contain a good dose of iron, but the type of iron, called “heme” iron, is really well-absorbed (30% versus as little as 5% in beans or other vegetables).

How to include more in your diet: Look for meat that is clearly labeled as grass fed (grass fed meat has more conjugated linoleic acid a heart-healthy fat). You only need about two 3-ounce servings a week, so don’t get carried away and start ordering 16-ounce steaks! Add thin strips of lean, grass-fed sirloin tip to a stir fry, super-lean ground round to chili beans or spaghetti sauce, or have an eye-round roast once in a while (just load the rest of the plate with tons of veggies!). Treat your meat to an antioxidant-rich rosemary and thyme rub, since studies show these herbs rid the body of cancer-causing substances by up to 87%.

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Sweet potatoes
Why it’s good for you: Healthy Skin

A serving of sweet potatoes supplies five times the Daily Value for beta carotene, which might lower your risk for cancer, boost defenses against colds and infections, and protect the skin from sun damage. Beta carotene accumulates in the skin providing partial 24-hour protection against sun damage. The more carotene-rich produce you eat, the more skin protection you get. Bright orange veggies also supply hefty amounts of vitamin C, potassium, and iron, and more fiber than a slice of whole wheat bread.

How to include more in your diet: Microwave a sweet potato and top with maple syrup and pecans. Puree and add to soups as a thickener. Use instead of potatoes in salads. Slice sweet potatoes into wedges, salt, and bake at 425 degrees for 15 minutes for golden fries. Cook, mash, and use instead of noodles or rice as a base for any dish.

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You know the Bible 93%!

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Making That Better Choice

Time and again, I have mentioned how we as a family value our environment and share in our blogs how we do it. From buying “green” things, purchasing items that do not contain harmful chemicals that will leave residue to the earth’s surface, using leakproof cloth diapers over those more famous commercial disposable ones, and much more.

I just found out that there are just about more that we could actually do and as more and more people are becoming aware of global warming, lots of solutions have come about and gives us consumers that better choice. Like for instance using HDPE Milk Bottles. It’s just true, we really have to do everything in our ability to reach out to our lone mother earth. This is just about the best we can do to give hope to the generations after us.

Have I really been doing paid blogging that long? I checked the tab from my PPP Dashboard that says "my posts" and true to what my senses have been telling me, I just finished my 100th post for them and I am so thrilled! It's just one of the milestones I hope to have recorded. :-)

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We are busier than ever -- and time has become a dwindling commodity ... do relationships suffer, or do we pack more relationship equity into the time we have. What if that "equity" becomes worthless?

My Love for Blogging


I have had this blog since December of last year. With a blog of our own, (the hubby and mine) I did not really have a niche when I got this blog registered. I figured out later though that this blog will be like a “Me” thing while our other one (Marriage and Beyond) will be “Ours” with both of our voices heard as its co-authors. I have had a blast since. I enjoy it immensely that I am moved to just work from home so I can continue to juggle my primary role in life, that is being the wife to my hubby and the mother to my son, and the chores in the house while making money through the blogs that I have. I have been earning decent money since. I used to earn dollars as well back in 1999 through the Foreign Exchange trading I did for clients. I would say that I receive just about the same compensation if not more, when I was still with that company, and hands down more than what I used to earn when I was still working in a bank. So, can you really blame me if I would rather stay home and take care of my family while earning a living?


One of the many facets of blogging (journaling of my son’s developmental milestones, family celebrations, etc.) that I like about is I get paid to do what I love to do – which is writing. I have been with PayPerPost since early this year. First I had to run through the blog ethics, I had to make sure I was doing things right and theirs was easy to figure out. This team has ushered me into many wonderful products and services that I never came across with until I had them reviewed. It’s also fun to meet friends who are also part of the team and actually bond with them even virtually. I intend to continue blogging. This is my passion that I would love to be better at by the day.

Thanks Hails for this tag. I appreciate it so much that I don't just involve the hubby in blogging via tags and memes, I even get to have him as my blogging partner and blog together in our Marriage and Beyond site. But my appreciation don't end there, here's a compacted list of what I love most about him. I know I can go on and on and on but I needed to stop myself and trim it down to 7. Here it goes...

1. He is God-fearing. Despite the many things that have pushed him to leave his calling, he has stayed put, pressed on towards leading His people through the local church he now pastors.

2. Hubby loves to shower me with gifts, even if I insist him not to. He has this funny antic, like for instance a few weeks before my birthday he'd get me something special and say it's for my 70th birthday. It's his way of saying he cannot not have something else to surprise me with on the day itself. I would tell him one gift is enough. But he'll find all the crazy excuses, 69th birthday, 68th and so and so forth. At one point, I got nerved, because I found it impractical. But later figured, he must just love me that much. :-)

3. His diplomatic nature.

4. He loves me like no other.

5. He is such a great lover!

6. He puts up with my crazy moods and he's getting better at handling me by the year.

7. Having no model of a good father (his was an ever absentee one), I must say he is really doing good at being a great one.

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