My 33 Month Old Toddler

How your toddler's growing: As your child nears his third birthday, you may notice him becoming curious about other people's moods — he may wonder why Grandma is angry or his brother is sad. Attempting an explanation ("Grandma is angry because her car isn't working") helps your child learn that emotions are normal and it's okay to talk about them — and may reassure him that he didn't do anything wrong.

Your child is learning something about his own moods, too, and his natural disposition — be it quiet, adventurous, reflective, or communicative — is becoming more apparent. You can gently encourage him to explore different sides of himself, but make sure he knows that whatever his temperament, you love and accept him. For instance, you can help a shy child meet other children but never ridicule him. A general respect for how he responds to the world will help him feel secure and confident.

As children get older, they take more interest in socializing. Your child is probably beginning to think of his playmates as friends, and he's learning that small kindnesses — like sharing and giving — are part of friendship. Many children, especially those without siblings, create imaginary playmates. Imaginary friends can show up between 2 and a half and 3 years of age. They can be a healthy part of your child's developing conscience and value system. They can provide solace and take responsibility for the things your child wishes he hadn't done. But most children lose interest in their imaginary friends by age 6.

How your life's changing: Everyone talks about the two's being terrible, but they fail to see how much 2-year-olds love helping around the house! They want to be part of the world around them, and they love and admire you. Your little one may want to help you set the table, fold the laundry, or pick up toys — and now is your chance to get some eager help while putting good habits in motion. Don't forget to encourage him with big appreciative hugs and kisses.

Parent Tip: A Bed of His Own "We were worried about moving our son from the family bed to his own bed — I didn't want to force him if he wasn't ready. So we moved his new bed into our bedroom for a few weeks. It was crowded, but I think it helped him get used to his new bed with us around."